Unbelievably, at my last oncology appointment, my doctor ordered a mammogram - for me. He said, "I think we've been neglecting your routine care."
Routine care? Me and routine care?
Does not compute.
In 2009, when I was diagnosed, I only had my diseased breast removed, keeping my other one as a souvenir. With metastatic breast cancer and the constant PETs and CTs, not to mention the years of chemo, a mammogram has been unnecessary. But as I get further into remission, I'm off real chemo and only on antibodies, the tests are ratcheting down and the stuff that normal people have to do are ratcheting up.
The mix of emotions I felt when he ordered that test were complex: I was disbelieving, confused, nervous, astonished, fearful, sickened and upset, and those were just the tip of the iceberg. For somebody who has had as much treatment as I have had, as many scans and tests and biopsies and surgeries and chemos, you'd think a simple mammogram would be nothing. Having a breast squished? Hell, I was stabbed in the liver while awake.
What's a mammogram?
I didn't want to do it. At all.
Being me, when faced with numerous emotions, I always fall back on good old reliable anger.
"What do you mean I need a mammogram?" I demanded of my highly trained and skilled doctor. "I thought all this treatment we have been doing for six years meant I could bypass it?"
I'm really thinking, "I'm way past these baby tests and now into the big girl tests. I'm a grown-up cancer patient, not a child."
I almost stamped my foot.
He stated the obvious, "You are at risk for a new primary - you could have a new triple negative cancer, for example, that the treatment you are on wouldn't help."
I stuttered, I stammered. My chemo brain stopped dead in its tracks. "But.....but.....a few months ago I had a PET."
"PET isn't very accurate, especially when finding smaller tumors."
He wrote up the order for a digital mammogram and sent me back to the treatment room. I think my doctor is amazing, and I do credit him for giving me these extra, unexpected years. But I was pretty mad at that moment, and went back to finish my treatment with outrage in my voice as I asked the nurses, "Do you know what my doctor said I had to do?" I was as upset as if he said I'd had to tattoo his name on my chest to get my next treatment.
When I calmed down and started thinking about it, I realized my anger was based in fear. Not of the test, which is simple. It was fear of starting the process all over. I realize how strange that must sound, coming from a person who has Stage IV cancer. I mean, it can't get any worse diagnostically, right? What's another new little cancer? Mentally, the idea of finding another cancer in my remaining breast, going through the diagnostic procedures and perhaps doing another mastectomy - it was too much to bear. Emotionally, agreeing to this test felt like I'd be losing all the ground I'd gained.
I'd rather not, thank you very much.
I took the lab slip, and promptly filed it. In the round bin, if you get my drift. Unfortunately, they are efficient, and they called me. Wearily, I scheduled the test.
This week, I was back in that old, familiar waiting room, TV blaring House Hunters. This time, I was not waiting for a PET or an MRI, but a mammogram. We know what happened last time I had a mammogram, 350,000 words ago.
I felt a sense of deja vu when called back. I was given a gown, the locker key, and told to take everything off and lock everything up. As an old hand at these tests, I knew to bring a sweater, so I put on the gown, my sweater, took my phone out of my purse and locked it up. I sat playing with the phone until my name was called, at which time I'd slip it in my back pocket.
A 3D digital mammogram is no different than a regular old 2D one. They still take your breast and like a ball of play dough, squish it into flat disk while taking a picture.
This difference comes in when you have an implant, which I now have. This brought a new and unpleasant surprise. In medical speak they must do an "implant displacement technique." What it means is the tech takes your breast, uses her icicle fingers and squishes around your skin until she feels the implant, then pushes it up as far against your chest wall as she can. At the same time, she grasps the remaining breast tissue and pulls it forward like stretched silly putty and smashes it against the ice cold glass plate.
Smile for the camera.
My one and only breast throbbed for days afterwards. But having only one, the test was, at least, pretty short and in a few minutes I was paying my parking (only $1.00!) and headed home.
Because of the fact that I violently did not want this test, I also was not anxious to receive the results. It simply didn't matter to me. If it came down to it, I would not do another mastectomy, period. This is not because of vanity, which as a one-breasted woman, would be ridiculous. It's because of the years of pain, frozen shoulders, discomfort, loss of motion, phantom itching and other problems I have been suffering with since my mastectomy in 2009. I have never fully healed. I am grateful daily that I chose not to do a double mastectomy. I already have metastatic breast cancer, and lines must be drawn about how I want to live out the rest of my days. I draw the line at amputating another body part that I know will lead me to years of discomfort and is unlikely to prolong my life.
But I did the test. Now, my insurance company is happy, which I suspect is the driving reason for being forced to have it in the first place.
I had my infusion appointment yesterday, and they did give me the mastectomy results. Fortunately, I won't have to make a decision or call myself a liar because the test is clean.
But remember how the PET scan isn't a good test because it doesn't see small cancers? Here is what my path report says: The breast tissue is heterogeneously dense, which could obscure detection of small masses.
See the problem there? Well, a mammogram costs $7000.00 less than a PET to see nothing so I guess its worth it. That, my friends, is why I rarely got mammograms in the first place - they couldn't see anything.
The report also says, The right breast is surgically absent. (Surgically absent as opposed to what, calling in sick?)
There are a few benign-appearing scattered calcifications. Bi-rads 2
I'll take it.
They'd just better not ask me to do a colonoscopy.
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